| From Passionate to 
Compassionate  
Ibrahim B. Syed, 
Ph. D. President
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   O ye who believer! Fasting is prescribed to 
you As it was prescribed To those before you, That ye may(learn) Self -restraint-  (Fasting) for a fixed Number of days; But if any of you is 
ill, Or on a journey, The prescribed number (Should be made up) From days later, For those who can do it (With hardship), is a 
ransom, The feeding of one That is indigent. But he that will give More, of his own free 
will- It is better for him. And it is better for you That ye fast If ye only knew. 
 (Surah 2: Al Baqarah, 
183-184) 
 
 Islam proceeded step by step and by 
degrees in the imposition of most of its obligatory duties and Fasting was no 
exception. The Noble Prophet(pbuh) advised Muslims to observe fasts for three 
days in a month but this was not obligatory. Then in the second year of Hijra, 
the Command(2:183) about fasting in the month of Ramadan was revealed. Verse 185 
in Surah Al Baqarah was revealed next year. The first Commandment about fasting 
contained in vv. 183-184 was revealed in the second year of Hijrah before the 
battle of Badr. The subsequent verse which superseded it was revealed a year 
later but was inserted here because it dealt with the same matter. 
 Siyam or Fasting during the month of 
Ramadan is Third Pillar of Islam. Muslims wait all year long for the arrival of 
this month of Ramadan. FASTING MEANS from dawn until sunset eating, drinking and 
sexual intercourse is forbidden. Ramadan is the month of patience. A person who 
is ready to be patient, not to eat while he is hungry, not to drink while he is 
thirsty, not to lean to his lusts, such a person is a noble individual. Such a 
person will be given paradise by Allah(SWT) as a gift, as a merit of award.  To train yourself to abstain from the 
essentials of life is not an easy act. It needs a strong personality to dictate 
self-control, self-discipline and self-restraint. Fasting develops self-control 
and helps Muslims overcome selfishness, greed, laziness and other faults. It is 
an annual training program to refresh us for carrying out our duties towards 
Allah. A person who can restrain himself, for the love and pleasure of Allah, 
deserves a reward from the Creator Himself. The hardship of fasting brings the 
glad tidings that the fasting undertaken for the sole purpose of pleasing Allah 
is sure to be accepted by the Most Merciful Lord.  Fast in which the spirit of Fasting is 
not observed is only an exercise in starvation but not really a Fast at all. The 
prophet(pubh) said " whosoever does not give up telling lies, or acting in a false manner, Allah has 
no need for his giving up his eating or drinking."  The basic purpose of Fasting is to 
suffuse us with the quality of taqwa. The term "taqwa" 
implies fear and precaution and in Islamic terminology it means fear of Allah or 
God Consciousness and avoidance of disobedience to Him. Literally, taqwa 
means: Godliness, devotees or piety. According to the scientific meaning, it 
signifies a screen between two things. Thus, if the servant submits himself to 
Allah's will by carrying out all obligatory duties with which he has been 
commanded and abstains from that which Allah has prohibited, then his obedient 
actions have placed a screen between himself and Allah's punishment. That is 
called taqwa. In our life journey we face innumerable temptations 
and we must shun them and stick scrupulously to the path of righteousness and 
truth- that is what constitutes taqwa, and for generating this 
taqwa. Taqwa is attained through knowledge which is 
coupled with true faith(iman). If we do not possess knowledge, we cannot really 
show piety. To obey the commands of Allah and to carry out His laws constitutes
taqwa.  Fasting has been made obligatory on us. We are made 
conscious about the needs and deprivation of those who are more in need than 
ourselves. This heightening of one's sense of sacrifice is the opposite of 
selfishness and of a desire to exploit or oppress someone for the sake of gain. 
Allah(SWT) does not need our hunger, but fasting helps us to develop and refine 
our reflex about right and wrong, our sense of love and gratitude. Ramadan 
teaches us how to control our animal passions, how to bring them under 
discipline. The end result is manifestation of a human personality that loves 
Allah and loves His creation, that fears none but Allah, that draws all its 
strength from Allah and Allah alone.  Ramadan is also the month of the 
Qur'an, the month in which the Qur'an was revealed.The moral and spiritual 
climate of Ramadan helps the flourishing of the Qur'anic message which the 
ambiance is of goodness, humility, righteousness, love for good and aversion for 
evil.  BENEFITS OF SIYAAM:  Besides the feeling of hunger and 
thirst, fasting teaches us to control the love of comfort. It helps us to keep 
our sexual desires within control. Siyaam builds and nourishes the soul of the 
fasting Muslim. The fasting person enriches his fasting by the remembrance of 
Allah, the recitation of the Qur'an, the night prayers, Zakah, Sadaqah(charity), 
and by refraining from sins and obscenity. The fasting person lowers his gaze 
and suppresses his desires. He guards his tongue from vain talk and obscenities. 
He guards his hands and legs from the prohibitions of Allah. He employs his 
hands and legs in the good and various deeds. Siyaam is not the mere refraining 
from eating and drinking, it is also refraining from vanity and obscenity. 
Siyaam builds a strong will and nourishes the truthful zeal in the soul. This is 
achieved when the fasting person struggles to work for his livelihood and 
resists his desires and temptations. Siyaam builds the strength to bear 
difficulties and hardship and instills the character of perseverance. The 
fasting person by depriving himself from food and drink, and other necessities 
of life becomes capable of controlling his desires, capricious whims, and 
temptations. The purpose of fasting is to enable a Muslim to control his 
passions, so that he becomes a person of good deeds and intentions. If one fasts 
from dawn to sunset, but continues to be abusive to one's spouse and children, 
tell lies, swears wrongly under oath, commits zina, cheats one's children by not 
giving them what is duly theirs of nafaqah in the form of care and love and 
indulgence in other wrongful acts, then the objective of fasting has not been 
achieved. Anger, a common human weakness, can also be brought under control by 
fasting. A Muslim should keep away from all bad actions during his fast. He 
should not lie, break a promise or do any deceitful act. Fasting in Ramadan 
helps one to develop good habits and suppress or eliminate bad habits such as 
smoking, drinking coffee, tea, etc. One can avoid or cut down on excessive 
consumption of food. A fasting person has feelings of 
sympathy for the poor. The sense of compassion springs from the feeling of pain. 
Fasting is a practical means to develop compassion for other people's 
sufferings. The Prophet Muhammad(pbuh) himself was very generous during 
Ramadan.  Ramadan instills unity and equality 
among all the members of the Muslim ummah. The Muslims fast during the same 
month, perform qiyaam al lail during the nights of this month and 
all seek the night of Qadr. They offer zakat-ul-fitr at the end of the month and 
celebrate Eid-ul-Fitr together. By doing this together during this month of 
Ramadan, the ummah becomes like one body living in harmony. The fasting person 
is alert and cautious not to fall into something that might spoil his or her 
fasting or seek the wrath of Allah. Fasting elevates the person from the 
material life to a higher spiritual life and helps him or her to approach a 
spiritual level that of angels who worship Allah day and night without 
tiredness.  Fasting builds important Islamic 
values, such as compassion, cooperation, diligence, firmness, affection, fear of 
Allah, trust in Allah, and many other qualities. Fasting establishes equality 
among the rich and the poor. It is a compulsory experience of poverty in that it 
makes all people share an quality, of feeling and to sympathize with one another 
through a collective sense of pain. Fasting Muslims can really sympathize with 
the starving people everywhere in the world and see the hardship that they go 
through every day of their lives. This compassion increases the practical aspect 
of the unity of Muslims and will reduce the idea of nationality and geographical 
identity. Allah is pleased with his servants and answers the duaa of the fasting 
person, when he supplicates to Him.   During the month of Ramadan, one should 
visit and offer prayers more frequently in the local mosques. Ramadan is a 
special time for visiting friends and family and sharing meals with the less 
fortunate.  The Prophet(pbuh) said, " O people! The 
month of Ramadan has come with His mercy, blessing and forgiveness. Allah(SWT) 
has decreed this month the best of all months. Its days are the best among days, 
its nights best among nights, and its hours best among hours. This is a month in 
which you have been invited by Him to fast and pray. Allah(SWT) has honored you 
in it. Every breath you take in this month has the reward of praise of Allah(SWT). 
Your sleep in worship, your good deeds are accepted and your invocations 
answered.  Therefore you must invoke your Lord in 
earnest, with hearts that are free from sin and evil, and pray that Allah(SWT) 
helps you fast, and recite the Qur'an. Give alms to the poor and the needy. Pay 
respect to your elders, have sympathy for your youngsters and be kind toward 
your relatives and kinsfolk. Guard your tongue against unworthy words, and your 
eyes from scenes that are not worth seeing and your ears from sounds that should 
not be heard. Understand well that Allah(SWT) has promised in the Name of His 
Majesty and Honor that He will not take to task such people who perform 
Salaat and Sajda and that He will guard their bodies against the fire 
of hell on the Day of Judgment.  O' people! If anyone among you arranges
Iftar for any believer, then Allah(SWT) will reward him and forgive him 
his previous sins. (A companion of the prophet(pbuh) asked: "But not everyone 
among us have the means to do so." The prophet replied: "Do it even if it be 
with half a date or some water if you have nothing else.")  O' people! Anyone who cultivates in 
this month good manners will walk over the bridge leading to paradise on the day 
when feet will tend to slip. Anyone who treats his kinsfolk well in it, Allah 
will bestow His mercy on him on the Day of Judgment while anyone who mistreats 
his kinsfolk, Allah will keep him away from His mercy. Whoever recites a verse 
of the Qur'an in this month, his reward will be that of reciting the whole 
Qur'an in other months. 
 O'people! The gates of paradise remain 
open in this month: pray to your Lord that they may not be closed for you. The 
gates of hell are closed during this month: pray that they may never be opened 
for you. Satan has been handcuffed: invoke your Lord not to let him dominate 
you." 
 May Allah(SWT) make us become kinder 
people, better neighbors and set good examples of the teachings of Islam which 
we present. Ameen!   |