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Educating Children - ” Wonderful Sayings of Imam Ali” (p.b.u.h) November 14, 2006 — moralsandethics Do not force your children to behave like you, for surely they have been created for a time which is different to your time. * * * * * * * * * Mould clay as long as it is pliable and plant seedlings while they are still supple. * * * * * * * * * A child that has to be restrained is like an extra finger: if you let it be, then you dislike it, and if you cut it off, then it is painful. * * * * * * * * * It should be your aim to display more kindness towards your child than the kindness that he displays towards you. * * * * * * * * * If you scold a child, then leave him room to turn away from his wrong action, so that you do not leave him with obstinacy as his only way out. * * * * * * * * * Since you sat down wherever you wished when you were small, sit down where you do not want to now that you are grown up. * * * * * * * * * The first things that children should learn about are the things that they will need to know when they become men. * * * * * * * * * The more forceful the pretence is in the beginning, the harder it will be to keep up the pretence in the end. * * * * * * * * * Surely the heart of a child is like fallow ground: whatever is planted in it is accepted by it. * * * * * * * * * When a father beats his child it is like putting manure on a young crop Posted in Islamic Articles, Moral & ethics, Traditions http://moralsandethics.wordpress.com/2006/11/14/educating-children-wonderful-sayings-of-imam-ali-pbuh/ |
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