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The Necessity of Teaching Our Children to Despise Terrorism & the Terrorists


Original Title:

Author: Abū ‘Umar al-‘Utaybī

Translator: Harrison

The Necessity of Teaching Our Children to Despise

Terrorism & the Terrorists

All praise and thanks are due to Allāh, and may peace and prayers be upon the

messenger of Allāh ( SAW ). To proceed:

Allegiance & Enmity Concerning Opposition to Terrorism

The prophet ( saw) said:


Each of you is a shepherd and each is responsible for his flock. The leader is the

shepherd and responsible for his flock. A man is a shepherd over his family and

responsible for his flock. A woman is a shepherd at her husband’s home and

responsible for her flock. A servant is a shepherd over the property of his

landlord and responsible for his flock. And a man is a shepherd over the property

of his father and responsible for his flock. So, each of you is a shepherd and

responsible and will be questioned about his flock.1

A father is responsible for teaching his children about moral virtue – to love it and act by

it. And he is responsible for warning them against immoral evil, for instructing them to

hate it, and to distance them from it.

So, for example, he teaches them to worship Allāh alone which is in harmony with the

natural disposition Allāh created people upon. He teaches them to love worship and

obedience (to Allāh), accustoming them to it. He instills within them displeasure for

disbelief, immorality, and disobedience (to Allāh).

He is also responsible for teaching them a middle-balance in Islam, its tolerance, its

justice and moderation, and he must explain these points for them. Likewise, he is

responsible for making clear to them the dangers of intolerance, extremism – and

terrorism. He tells them what corruption is and who the corruptors are.

One of the most important issues of belief parents (and anyone else in charge) are

responsible for is to educate their children about allegiance and enmity, love and hate.


The strongest type of faith is to like for the sake of Allāh, dislike for the sake of

Allāh, show loyalty for the sake of Allāh, and to show enmity for the sake of


So, it is necessary to let them know tolerance and moderation in this regard in which

many people have fallen into either excessiveness or neglect. They should be taught to

1 Recorded by al-Bukhārī (no. 893), Muslim (no. 1829), al-Tirmidhī (no. 1705), Abū Dāwūd (no.

2928, and others.

2 Recorded by al-Bazzār and al- Tabarānī from Ibn Abbās (RA), considering it a Marfū’ Hadīth,

raised to the level of being a statement of the prophet (SAW).


like Islam, Muslims, and to support them even by supplicating for them. Similarly, they

are taught to dislike disbelief (in Allāh) and whatever of disbelief non-Muslims believe in

without supporting them in this regard. With this, it must be explained that displeasure

with nonbelievers in no way means we may oppress or harm them or show hostility

towards them. Rather, Allāh has ordered us to be just with them. He has, for example,

allowed us to eat the food prepared by the People of the Book (Jewish & Christians),

marry among them, and to invite them to the religion of Islam, yet with wisdom and gentle

preaching and only argue in a dignified manner.

Hatred for Terrorism & the Terrorists

One of the issues we are required to do is raise our children, cultivating within them

abhorrence for terrorism and terrorists – exposing them, their plots, and their patterns.

And we must isolate our children from them and distance children from following their

way and objective.

It should be clarified for them that these terrorists are a people astray, deviously

perverting (Islam). Devils have influenced them, seduced and misled them. Satan uses

such people to spread evil and corruption. Even those who show enmity towards Muslims

like Zionists and others may be happy to see such bombings and destruction commit by

terrorists in Muslim lands.

It should be explained to our children that the bombings terrorists carry out while trying to

use the Quran and Sunnah in support of it is nothing more than an attempt to deceive

and betray people.

Also, they are advised to be glad when terrorists, even one of them, are stopped

(arrested, etc.) and put away. Children should be taught that by even one terrorist’s arrest

or being stopped, this is a victory for Islam and Muslims; it is a relief and comfort to

Muslims without the evil of such a destructive terrorist.


They are certainly days of happiness and joy when we hear of a terrorist’s plot being

exposed or a terrorist’s crime prevented, or even if capital punishment is carried out upon

a criminal terrorist.

We must neither display nor feel sympathy for terrorists when they are defeated so that

our children see no contradicting behavior nor give terrorists the benefit of doubt. And if

they ever do see someone displaying any type of grief over the death of a terrorist, then it

should be explained that such may be sadness in the sense remorse over their situation

– how Satan deceived and destroyed them, and not in a sense of liking the terrorists.

Terrorist acts are to be taken very seriously (when discussing them with children) and

treated with firm resolve and strictness as should the terrorists themselves. This is so that

those who don’t yet know the truth about them don’t begin to sympathize with them.

These are not simply things we say only in our spare time and they are not lessons we

could ever stress enough! But we have to make it genuinely clear to our kids the crimes

terrorists commit seeking nothing more than devastation. They do so even in Mecca and

Medina, even killing believers in Mecca

We make it clear to them that these people murder men, children, women, and the

elderly while the victims are peacefully sleeping. They even do so while some (the

Muslims among them) are praying and reading the Quran. We must clarify to our children

that the terrorists, the misguided sect known as the Khawārij, are faithless traitors when

they murder Non-Muslim foreigners, those whose service our nations have requested

only for the well-being of our own countries and homelands.

And we let our children know that such terrorists have no objective but killing and

desolation in the name of “Jihād”. They’re deprived of all intellect and wisdom. Rather,

they’re like mere devices that move only to explode and devastate with the consent of

none but the enemies of the religion of monotheism.

Warning against the Path Leading to Terrorism


It’s the obligation of every Muslim and to protect himself and those under his care from

any means that could lead to extremism, intolerance, and terrorism. Allāh (SWT) says:



Oh believers, save yourselves and your families from a fire whose fuel is people

and stones, over which are (appointed) angels, harsh and severe. They don’t

disobey Allāh in what He commands them, but do (everything) they are

instructed. [Sūrah al-Tahrīm, verse 66:06]

It makes no sense to warn ourselves and our children against terrorism and extremism

and then expose them to the very means that lead to it. Rather, it’s our obligation to

caution them against and separate them from any path leading to intolerance and

terrorism. So, we warn them from excessiveness and intolerance, from associating with

evil people, and from sitting with misguided people. And we encourage them to spend

time with righteous people and stay away from uncertain places.

I ask Allāh to shelter us and our children from extremism and corruption and to make

them righteous people encouraging others to righteousness.


And Allāh knows best.


May Allāh send peace and prayers upon our prophet, Muhammad.


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